It’s no secret that many spirit-led women who have incredible gifts and talents often get stuck with fear and self-doubt. One of the big reasons is that the beliefs and patterns that kept us safe in childhood actually become barriers to our empowerment in adulthood. Left unaddressed, these early patterns can lead to being stuck indefinitely with guilt, shame and self-sabotage.
As female children, we inherited a template from our mothers of what it means to be a woman; what is possible and impossible for us; what is expected and what is taboo. These things are so unconscious that we often don’t even know they are there, yet even into our adulthood, they can sabotage us for years. And if we do not take action to change them, possibly our entire lifetimes.
The mother wound is a set of beliefs and patterns that originate from early dynamics with your mother that can cause you to unconsciously limit or sabotage yourself. The mother wound can manifest in many different ways: problems with boundaries, giving your power away, feeling unworthy, shrinking to be accepted, being an emotional caretaker of others, etc. The mother wound is also the pain of being a woman passed down through generations of women in patriarchal cultures.
The core belief within the mother wound is a vague, persistent sense that “There’s something wrong with me.” Left unaddressed, this unconscious belief may touch every area of our lives, causing us to indefinitely remain small, stuck and feeling undeserving. This can result in not fulfilling your potential and arranging your life around “not rocking the boat.”
Because our relationships with our mothers served as the foundation for our relationship with ourselves, they offer massive potential for growth and transformation. That is the point of healing the mother wound; not to blame, not to judge or reject one’s mother. But to experience the peace and freedom of self-actualization, which is the birthright of every woman.
Because we live in a patriarchal, male-dominated society, our mothers inevitably and unconsciously passed along messages that cause us to reject ourselves, to dismiss our dreams, and to be small in order to survive. These were the same messages and beliefs that she and her mothers before her had to internalize. While these messages may have helped us physically survive a hostile, unfeeling world as children, they actually inhibit our ability to step forward and live from our authentic power and truth as adult women.
This online course offers you the wisdom I learned through my own journey of healing the mother wound; so that you can remove your core blocks related to your mother and step into your true power. You can do this!
I created this online course because after spending years healing from the mother wound I experienced results so profound and life-changing that I am passionately dedicated to helping other women experience the same. What I realized is that healing the mother wound is absolutely essential to fully removing the barriers to a woman’s full-scale empowerment and fulfillment.
Prior to focusing on healing the mother wound, I tiptoed around it and avoided it. I had low self-esteem, very weak boundaries and a deep sense of shame. I didn't want to look at the mother wound because it was just too painful. Yet, I knew that claiming my power and experiencing true fulfillment required that I address it. I felt stuck. Once I summoned the courage to directly address the pain in the mother wound and got the support I needed to do so, my life changed dramatically and new horizons opened to me that I never would have imagined!
During the most difficult times of my healing process, I wished I had a woman in my life who had already gone through this process to show me that it IS possible to come out the other side of the mother wound.
When you focus on healing the mother wound you are no longer dealing with multiple symptoms or surface problems in your life, you are actually dealing with the central point from which many major issues arise. Because a woman’s relationship with her mother is so central and foundational, it touches on every area of a woman’s life and so the scale of healing and transformation is unlimited.
To provide you with the tools necessary to dismantle the dysfunctional patterns within the mother wound that have kept you stuck and to build new structures that support you in authentically living as your true self. If you’re fully committed to your growth and empowerment, and are READY to move through this, I invite you to invest in yourself with this online course.
Having spent over a decade on my own healing journey, I have created a roadmap of the healing process that can benefit all women across the spectrum of mother/daughter relationships, from those with peaceful relationships with their mothers to those with difficult relationships.
In this online course, I’ll walk you through a transformative 7-step process that covers the full terrain on how to heal the mother wound, as well as offer you tools, resources and tips that will support you on the entire journey.
Upon registration you will receive a username and password to access your course content for the Introduction and Step 1. Each week, for a total of 8 weeks, you’ll receive new content and exercises to complete for each module. After those 8 weeks, course materials will be available to you indefinitely.
Each woman who invests in this course will have access to a secret, private Facebook group to connect with other women who are also on this journey. In addition, all who purchase the course have access to Q & A calls held twice a month.
"The journey through the modules took me all the way to the deepest abyss and back to the light. The endless "aha" moments brought forth a huge paradigm shift that catapulted me to the new level that I thought was not reachable for me in this life. I cannot thank you enough. I've tried so many things, done so much healing, took so many courses, but this was such a thorough, deep and life-changing process. I am truly re-born."
Magdalena Szpilka, Ireland
I have done a lot of therapy on my relationship with my mother which is now very loving, but Bethany has made me much more aware of my mother wound and how to heal it, as well as how to birth the mother within myself. I am so grateful to Bethany for sharing her experience, intuition and wisdom in such a simple, gentle, heartfelt way in her course. I highly recommended this program to all Women!Melinda, Barcelona, Spain
Bethany has created such a fantastic course! It is filled with so much valuable content. She has synthesized such a huge and deep issue so clearly. And she offers it with so much presence and power!Sophia, Barcelona, Spain
Bethany Webster is a writer, transformational coach, international speaker and what you could call a midwife of the heart. Her work is focused on helping women heal the "mother wound" so that they can step into their full feminine power and potential. She offers an online course, teaches workshops and a coaching program for women leaders who want to accelerate their impact and leadership. Bethany is the author of the forthcoming book "Healing the Mother Wound: Move Beyond What Your Mother Never Gave You and Become the Woman You're Meant to be." Her website is womboflight.com